The Dangers of Prenuptial Agreements!
With the escalating divorce rate and loads of domestic violence cases, many people have resorted to using premarital agreements, to spell out how their assets will be split in case they need a divorce in the future. They reason that it is better to secure the assets they acquired before the marriage, than to risk losing them if they divorce in the future. However, a recent study is revealing that prenup use is not always the best strategy to apply. Here is why:
If both the husband and wife are ideal for each other, and they agree to the mutual needs of safeguarding against financial loss, then the prenup becomes a source of peace of mind to benefit both parties. And this was especially true in circumstances where there is children's property from the previous marriage, or where one had inherited assets with conditions that would be affected by a divorce. In such special circumstances, a legal contract spelling out this (third party protection) is the right thing to do.
However, due to the high divorce rate, many people have lost their ability to trust. Many have lost confidence in their ability to create a strong and lasting love relationship. Many people are now focusing on protecting their wealth, on the suspicious assumption that their fiancé(e) could be a gold digger. Many do not believe that their relationships will last the test of time. Many assume that their fiancé(e) is out to get them, and all these negative beliefs and false assumptions are truly fueling marital failure. Yes, a prenup protects the money, but it also programs the mind for failure. Here below are some of the dangers:-
The study found that the party with fewer assets was always left wondering on which of the two agreements held more value. Was it the trial commitment (prenup) or a total commitment (marital vows)? On one hand you have jointly become one in the spirit of family, but on the other hand you do not want to be a party to your spouse's liabilities or problems, and s/he is not taking your 401k, your home, your assets, or your heart if s/he wants to quit anytime in the future. During this study, one prenup user who quit the relationship asked these questions: "How confident would you feel in a marriage where you are not trusted? How would you feel if your spouse thought you were a gold digger waiting to quit in the future? How joyful would you be in such a 'love' relationship?"
They had contradicting needs and expectations from their marriage; one wanted true love, and the other wanted to protect their assets from their spouse. And later, when the husband suggested that they should get a baby, the wife asked him, "So how much will you pay me for carrying your child?" Sounds fair enough? Are these selfish motives? Commercialized family spirit? You be the judge.
Simply focusing on protecting yourself against financial loss, is now becoming a source of breakdown to many marriages. There is a better way of managing marital risks, than transferring all the risks to the spouse with fewer assets. Your interest should be to protect not only your money, but the core of the family and this includes full protection of your heart, your family, your legacy, and especially your family's peace of mind.
And today, you have a simplified and lasting solution to this challenge. For the first time, you now have an indispensable decision making tool that guides you to foresee and manage the risks and uncertainties in building your love relationship. You now have the quality knowledge and advice which has been missing. You can easily gain the deep understanding you need to possess, to enable you to see the bigger picture, and to make lifetime winning decisions. Now, you can confidently grow a rich and fulfilling love relationship.
The bottom line is: Choosing and Keeping a Lover Successfully are decision making skills you can learn. Staying ignorant of these skills and mismatching basing on a prenup backup, is not smart at all, especially in this era. Marriage is all predictable. There are 10 critical steps you must learn, if your desire is to make the right decisions that stand the test of time. This life-shaping wisdom is in a workbook titled, "10 Steps to Success in Love and Marriage; Self-Help Secrets for the Smart Lover", by Alex Mugume. It is the best resource for those who desire to gain a deep understanding on this subject.
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How to Spot Evil in Your Boyfriend's Eyes
An ordinary camera and a good Reiki Therapist or Spiritual Healer may save you years of grief being trapped with the wrong person. They say that the eyes are the windows to the soul. That may be true if you have a glass eye. Jesus loved to talk about the "blind guides" of his day. Yesterday all of my troubles seemed so far away but today they have returned, even though I have learned how to spot evil in people's eyes. What good does it do? Does it make the person less evil? Are evil people likely to take your suggestion and go for an exorcism or Reiki or a spiritual healing? No, evil people think that they are perfect. They think that you are wrong and they are right. This is one of the many lies that they tell themselves and others endlessly. The good news is that if you learn to spot evil in people's eyes then you can stay away from them; unless you want to be with them because you are masochistic – you love the pain.
Life seems to be a roller coaster of pain at the bottom and ecstasy at the top, with general malaise being the most common condition. Perhaps Earth is just a roller coaster built by a video gamer billions of years advanced in time. Did you ever wonder how prophets can tell the future? Time must be curved like an infinity symbol lying on its side. The future must have already happened for someone to know what it is. There are billions of Catholics, Protestants, Muslims, Jews, Hindus, Buddhists and Atheists. By definition billions of people have to be wrong. According to each religion the members of their group are angels and everyone else is evil. How could billions of people fall for such baloney? The answer is that the world is a lunatic asylum for the criminally insane. How else could you explain the Pope's ball gown and a billion people thinking that they need his approval to get into heaven?
Here is how you spot evil in a person's eyes. This is barring some genetic abnormality, like a clubbed foot. Congratulations to Phil Mickelson. He proved that it doesn't matter whether you use a Titleist or a Callaway driver, you can still win a green jacket.
Lets say that you want to know if the person you are in a relationship is evil. There are several key indicators. If they chop you up into tiny little pieces and then eat you this is not a good sign. Before this happens, find a picture of them taken face on with them looking right into the camera. Start by looking at their left eye. Then look at their right eye. In the case of the nice person, both eyes are in the center of the eyeball and focusing right on you. In the case of the not so nice person one eye may be a bit off center and looking out to the side. In the case of the truly evil person both eyes are in the far corner of the eye looking sideways. This is called snake eyes.
When your partner has snake eyes there are always other indicators to go along with it. M.Scott Peck M.D. is a psychiatrist who sold 5 million copies of "The Road Less Traveled." It is a story about a webmaster who didn't care about quality inbound one way links. He also wrote "People of the Lie" and "Glimpses of the Devil." In Glimpses of the Devil he performed two exorcisms each lasting 5 days and he videotaped them in their entirety. The camera caught the second victim shape shifting into a snake faced woman. Once at a Native Indian circle gathering 17 people all saw the 18th person in the circle shape shift into a mosquito. Normally evil people don't shape shift into mosquitoes. How many toes does a mosquito have? Mosquitoes are getting a bad wrap these days for spreading west nile virus and malaria, as if they can help it.
Evil people lie constantly and endlessly. Their lies and threats are obvious baloney, but they are designed to confuse you and make you doubt yourself so that you will give them power over you. This is an effective tool and has led to numerous of the most evil human beings ever grabbing immense political power over millions of willing followers. Adolf Hitler is an excellent example.
Normally humans have built in radar against evil people. When you are in the presence of an evil person you will get a shaky creepy feeling and want to run for your life. When you are in the presence of an angel person you will feel a warm glow. If your spouse is filled with evil spirits, then suggest that you both go for Reiki, or Spiritual Healing. Some practitioners can even do miraculous distance healing from anywhere on Earth with only the patient's first name and date of birth. There is no need to be a believer. Gravity will hold you down on a ball flying through space constantly and rotating constantly thousands of miles per hour, no matter what name you give to it and no matter whether you believe in it or not. If you happen to see your spouse shape shift into a foaming at the mouth growling vicious wolf it may be time to take him to the veterinarian for his annual rabies shot, no matter what religion he is. Take my penicillin, please.


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